I hang out with an assortment of blokes. Frequently the topic of conversation turns to lassies. Dating 'em, dealing with 'em and stuff like that. More than a few times, some of my mates give unsolicitated advice.
"As long as you don't give a shit, they come for ya. The less I try, the more opportunities I get and it's all good." is the jist of what I hear sometimes. And from the look of it, I can see that this "strategy" works well for some.
Well, I've thought about this. And as I get older, I do care a bit less than when I was 13 asking out the girl in the seat next to me in class, but I would hardly call it "not caring". Just can't do it. I care. I wish the best for everyone, not just a girl that I am interested in.
I care versus not caring. Not caring just doesn't feel right. I'm unable to force the "not caring" thing. Maybe that's why I have no GAME. :-)
So the new table for GAME might go something like this.
No GAME = caring
GAME = no caring